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What is a fire ceremony?
Today I thought I would tell you a little about the fire ceremonies I do at the retreats. It can sound a bit ‘whoo’. And you may be...

Cathy Williams
Apr 3, 20224 min read


Does having a vbac increase your chance of a 3rd or 4th degree injury?
A new study has found that women going for vbac were more likely to have a 3rd or 4th degree perineal tear (anal sphincter injury), than...

Cathy Williams
Feb 16, 20222 min read


Let your hormones be in the driving seat
The important hormones of childbirth Giving birth is controlled by the most primitive part of our brain, sometimes called ‘the reptilian...

Cathy Williams
Jun 21, 20215 min read


Water baby
It's my #4's 16th birthday. Here's his birth story. I was fed up. It was my due date. All of my previous three babies had come well...

Cathy Williams
Aug 18, 20204 min read


6 steps to making a complaint
Making a complaint about your maternity care. Maternity care in the UK is not perfect. Midwives and doctors are human beings, trying to...

Cathy Williams
May 17, 20204 min read


Coronavirus and home birth
Has the Coronavirus outbreak made you consider home birth? Or are you wondering what would happen to your home birth plans if you come...

Cathy Williams
Mar 12, 20207 min read


Twin home water birth at 42+2 weeks
Many women are told 'you're not allowed to ...'. Not allowed to have a home birth with twins. Not allowed to have a water birth with...

Cathy Williams
Feb 19, 20208 min read


Women do the allowing
As the woman who is pregnant, who is carrying the baby, who is giving birth to the baby from your own body, you, and only you, have the...

Cathy Williams
Feb 18, 20203 min read


All you need is love ...
💞OXYTOCIN💞 The love hormone. Released with a hug (20 seconds is best), a kiss, touch, massage, loving words, sex, orgasm, labour,...

Cathy Williams
Feb 14, 20202 min read


How I coped with labour with my first baby
Here I am at home a few days after giving birth, my tummy still wobbly, breast pad on the arm of the sofa. I gave birth on Tuesday 19th...

Cathy Williams
Feb 5, 20203 min read


Why knowing what 10cm looks like is unhelpful
With Halloween last week a picture of a pumpkin display in a maternity unit supposedly showing varying cervical dilation sizes went...

Cathy Williams
Nov 4, 20194 min read


How to cope with labour
Eight top tips from doula & mum of five, Cathy, Chilled Mama. Generally the things that women do naturally during tightenings not only...

Cathy Williams
Sep 10, 20194 min read


A postnatal water birth
Rebirthing, a way through trauma and disappointment. Reset those first few minutes of your baby's birth.

Cathy Williams
Jul 29, 20193 min read


Baby rice or broccoli?
Does it matter what food you start with? Just when you've got the hang of nappy changes, how to collapse the buggy, and getting dressed...

Cathy Williams
Feb 5, 20194 min read


Was Jesus born in a cave? And why that's a good idea for you too.
At this time of year every primary school across the UK puts on a nativity performance, with Mary giving birth in a stable, surrounded by...

Cathy Williams
Dec 20, 20185 min read


Should I be worried?
Watching reality birth programmes when pregnant probably isn't a good idea. They are edited to seem extra dramatic. A midwife who worked...

Cathy Williams
Nov 18, 20183 min read


Nine years of breastfeeding support
Facebook has reminded that nine years ago today I did my breastfeeding training with the NHS for my role at a Sure Start children's...

Cathy Williams
Nov 5, 20182 min read


Midwives need us
This is a copy of the letter I have written to my local hospital trust tonight. I have sent similar to my local Healthwatch, CCG...

Cathy Williams
Sep 13, 20182 min read


6 cool facts about your amazing pregnant body
1. Your tail bone is jointed Did you know that men and women’s tail bones are different? The tailbone is at the very bottom of the...

Cathy Williams
Sep 9, 20184 min read


Home birth; safe birth
A little bit of history. Did you know that the big move from home birth to hospital happened after a government report in 1970? I was...

Cathy Williams
Aug 28, 20184 min read
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